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I Just Don't Get It
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brookiki
I hate when I do something stupid or make a mistake and then the person who has the power to help out with the problem gives me a break, but then proceeds to make me feel incredibly bad about it. I guess my view is that if you're in charge and someone makes a mistake that you have the power to overlook, you have two options:

1) The mistake was so bad or so sloppy that they person doesn't deserve a second chance. Fine. Don't give it.

2) The mistake was understandable or you want to give someone a break because of external circumstances. Great, go for it.

I guess I don't see the middle ground: Giving someone who doesn't deserve a break a second chance and then criticizing them for it or making someone who made an understandable and forgivable mistake under the circumstances feel that much worse about it.

Yeah, I had a bad day today. It's mostly okay now, but I still feel bad about it. Details later, if I feel like talking about it.

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You deserved a second chance Onee-sama...

Don't let that person get you down.:(

I'll be around if you feel like explaining. I understand being so upset you just don't wanna bother with it. Do something fun, to take your mind off of it.


I'm in a better frame of mind, so I'll explain it in a bit. Everything's okay now, it was just really frustrating when it happened.

I hope so. I don't hear much from you these days, and my imagination runs like the wind.:D

I bet it was. You're so much cooler than me. I swear like crazy when I'm uber pissed.

It's cause I'm so zen. And stuff...

I call bullshit, you're using some kind of cheating device.:P

It's just my lovely, sunny personality. :-)

You do deserve a second chance, and I'm hoping that this isn't dealing with the teacher that's been giving you such a hard time with this paper, because I know you've been working really hard on it. D:

No, it's a different one. Gee, I seem to be having a lot of problems with profs this semester, don't I? She's nice enough, but... =P It's just frustrating.

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